I'm 22. Though it says I live in Charleston. I don't. That is my "home base" so to speak. I'm curren... View MoreI'm 22. Though it says I live in Charleston. I don't. That is my "home base" so to speak. I'm currently on a bout of extended world travel which I intend to continue indefinitely. Charleston happens to be where I leave some of my possessions.
I haven't been a life long dominant. Sexually I've always had the itch when with girls and enjoyed the dominant aspect. Coming to this community was a random detour that proved to be absolutely awesome. I think there is a bad idea that dominant and aggressive go hand in hand. For me it's about being in control, first of myself and then of others. Any real master must first be a master of self. For me this is an ongoing journey and every new step shows me just how little I have. I might be an ego maniac, I might be a psycho control freak, I might be a fool, I might be a genius. Time will tell.
I list fetishes: financial domination, suits, smoking.
Because... I smoke, and like suits. Financial domination is secondary to any D/S relationship. I don't really like poor people, so if you have no job/income I probably won't have any interest in you as a sub unless your valuable in some other way. Not to be crass, that's just the way it is. That being said, eagerness to serve/learn is always far more important than income or amount of money you have or want to give. ALWAYS.
